In early February I realised I kept coming across articles dealing with facets of the same theme : living frugally. For example, in a most unlikely local publication, the YOU Magazine, there was a feature article on Living Frugally. Somewhat ironic considering the desperate poverty afflicting many of South Africa’s citizens, but not everyone in SA is living on the brink. We have a nice thick layer of fat cats, purring contentedly, insulated by corruption; but that’s another story.

The article  featured an American woman, who is famous in the US for promoting thrifty living. I didn’t note her name, but she’s married, lives in Utah, and has four kids. Seems she‘s often on American TV explaining the principles. I read  her suggestions and didn’t find any hints that were new to me – I’ve been living frugally for years and could teach her a thing or two! But that’s by the by. The point is: thrift is headline news.

De-cluttering is another current buzzword. I’ve seen blog posts and print articles, as well as TV programmes urging us to either Keep it if its precious, Donate if its excess, or Turf it out if it’s well and truly finished.

 I had an interesting conversation with a German friend  on this topic, and she said that as a ‘War Baby’ i.e. born in the early to mid 1940’s, she tended to hoard possessions, because “I might need it one day”.  She attributes this mind-set to early childhood when everything had to be kept, ‘just in case’, because of war-time rationing and shortages.

I can relate to this, as I was also a War Baby. We were living in Central/East Africa, and suddenly there were no imported goods, due to war-time disruption of shipping. Our mothers had to haul out their sewing machines and knitting needles and get busy, making clothing for the entire family. Our Clarke’s sandals had the toes carefully cut out, so that our growing toes could spill over the edge of the sole. Going barefoot wasn’t an option, due to the dreaded jiggers in the sand.

Another minor trend, has been blog posts on Minimalism for Writers. When I consider some popular blockbusters like the Game of Thrones series, or the Ken Follett novels, or gigantic novels like the Goldfinch, this might not be such a bad idea!

A  book-related de-cluttering tip is this one: every time you acquire a new book you must donate or sell a book from your shelves. Hmm. I’m not quite so sure about this one. I love my books, and enjoy their presence in my home. I loan them out and share them, but they need to come home to Mama at some point. I’m prepared to re-cycle, live on lentils, wear hand-me-down clothes, but this book-turfing idea fills me with horror! Not for me.








8 responses to “LIVING FRUGALLY

  1. Alison, I can relate to your views on book-turfing… it feels so wrong to ‘get rid of’ books, particularly of ones that I loved reading some time back, but even more so the ones that I would still love to read if I found the time.

    That said, I’ve had to go through my bookshelves with metaphorical pruning shears several times in recent years, as overflowing bookshelves and sagging wooden floors make an unfortunate combination. It’s sad to see them go, but donating them for charity book sales, local libraries and other good causes does at least make it feel worthwhile.


  2. Charlotte

    Lovely one! ‘Living frugally’ is simply changing one’s mindset. Don’t stand on front of a shop window in Cavendish and think of all the things you’d like. Rather think “Look at all the things I don’t need.” It’s amazing how it works. You find that you actually don’t need anything.


  3. Shannon

    Mmmm food for thought – to live more frugally. It brought a smile. Recently a friend de-cluttered her home and as a result, I am now the proud owner of one of her very beautiful discarded coats! Being at the receiving end of a de-cluttering is therefor not a bad thing! My mum was also a war baby, she keeps the tiniest bits of food in her fridge in tiny tupperwares until they grow to independence! And yes, not sure whether its to do with my fear of looking stupid, but I am entirely attached to my books. The thought of giving them away fills me with anxiety. They rate among my most treasured possessions. I shall store this suggestion in the back of my head and see if it germinates!

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  4. Lindsey van Heerden

    I have a hard core of books that will never ever leave my side, not even on loan! The rest, although I’ll be sad to see them go, can go off and bring pleasure to somebody else!

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  5. I bought a book on how to de-clutter and set-to enthusiastically to clear out old text-books, papers, and books I knew I’d never read. My reward? Another de-cluttering book at the bottom of the pile!

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  6. Eileen Turner

    I am not able to declutter my bookshelves, neither, Alison. I DO re-read many of them, but I know that I am not a very good Buddhist by hanging on to possessions!


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